Embrace Who you Are

My wife said I'm reluctant leader the other day. Shes told me this a bunch of times but for some reason its stuck in my head now. She told me that I am willing to let a process fail before taking the reigns and fixing it. My thought was it was being humble to letting someone else take control and lead the team toward the goal.

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Back on my Bullshxt

So Labor Day is over. I'm sure everyone had a nice time chilling with friends, stopping at all the cookouts, and stuffing your faces with the finest of grilled meats and homemade sides. I certainly did. Had too many beers, hotlinks, ribs, potato salad, mac and cheese, burgers, and chips. Fatty time is over though. Its time to get back on my bullshxt.

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You're all You've Got

Growth is in the most uncomfortable part of anything. I've known this for sometime. What's effed up is that as much as I say want to grow it must be bullshxt because I usually run from what's uncomfortable. I see it, mentally say "No Thank You" and keep saying "im serious about growth". It's a cycle that I've let comfort me for far too long…

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Real Friends

I'm not a point where I want to just "kick it" with people anymore. Not to be snobby, but I’m trying to maximize my time. If there's nothing for anyone to get out of other than "chill" its probably not for me. I'm trying to learn from people who are where I’m trying to get to, and pour into people who want to avoid my mistakes. Trying to walk with people who aren't walking in the same direction as I am only leads to confusion.

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Bum Life

I have a proclivity for laziness. It's kinda my default mode. Wife asks "what do you want to do today?" I usually say "i’m down for whatever" or "just chill". There's nothing wrong with having days like that, but when that's what you do most days, you're getting soft.

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Undefeated

When you're a winner in certain aspects of life for long enough, you expect to win. You've done it for so long so well that it borders on arrogance and entitlement. You've never lost so why would it happen to you. You don't lose, that's for people that have less talent. It's a mentality that honestly, is just plain stupid.

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Blowing Money Fast

I like spending money, but I hate being broke. What a conundrum right? Yes. It's an oxymoron. Two diametrically opposed forces, consumption and consolidation. Its weird trying to juggle the two. I must admit i have money problems. Thing is I've been broke, not as a a child but as an adult. If you’re a broke as a child it doesn’t hurt the same because its not your fault. Its a problem caused by an adult that an adult must resolve. When you’re broke as an adult its one persons fault, yours.

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Satisfaction

Being satisfied is not a feeling fostered much in America. Everything about this country fosters the desire of gluttony. This country consumes 20% of its available resources in a given year and is only 5% of the population. We are inundated with visuals of glitz and glamour. The rich are  celebrated simply for being rich. So much of someone's worth is predicated on how much stuff they have. Two shirts made by the same people in the same country can have a $500 price difference simply because of exclusivity.

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Failure

You will probably not attain everything you desire. You probably won't meet every goal. You probably won't make every dream a reality. You know what though?...that's probably okay.

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Secluding Yourself

Everyone says you have to go out and get it. Goals don’t come to you you have to go to them. Often that means networking, pressing flesh, stepping outside of your comfort zone, building a team, etc. These things are often glorified as making “moves” and while these things are paramount to success, there something else that isn't covered often..isolation.

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What a Good Woman is to a Good Man

A Good Woman is going to elevate a good Man by default. He doesn’t have a choice. If he’s a good man, his life will get better just because she’s there. Don’t get it twisted good women aren’t cheap. You shouldn’t be spending much money, but you will be spending time, you will be spending effort, you will be spending nerves.

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You Are all that is Required

I used to talk a good game when it came to my ambitions, reality is I was coasting on good luck and talent. My excuses fed me breakfast in the morning and tucked me in at night…and it was all a waste of time…Don’t be like I was

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Its Just You…

The best work is done in the dark. In the quiet of your own mind, away from the desires and agendas of others. The man to fear at your job, the one that is going to get the promotion over you, is the one that needs no external motivation. The person who is always the hungriest in the pursuit of their goals is the one that doesn’t get distracted.

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You Think You’re Tough?

Do you think you’re driven? Do you think you’re mentally stronger than most people? Do you think you’ve been through things that most people wouldn’t people and might not have made it through?

Congratulations. You’re Probably Wrong.

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Balance

I am not a naturally Balanced Person. I have an addictive personality. I have had issues with alcohol abuse, I have been a workaholic, I have dealt with depression and suicidal thoughts, I had a hoe phase (yes guys have them too, some never grow past it).

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Human Resources

The saying goes "people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime". The reality is people come into your life to serve a purpose. That purpose may be to assist your success, or to instigate your downfall. For the most part we have a choice. 99% of the people in your life are of your choosing.

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Self-Identity Crisis

Who are you? Who do you want to be? These are questions everyone asks themselves (or at least should be). The answer to the former being the most important part of your existence. The answer to the latter being the second most important. They are both more important than breathing.

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