Getting My Sh*t Together

Getting my shit together part… I lost count


Alrighty here comes some honest self reflection:

In reality I don't really feel like doing Black Married Fly all the time. Sometimes when I feel like my plate is too full it’s the first thing I magically scrape off. It's not because I don't care about it or want it to grow it's just how I keep my priority list.


I feel like my first responsibility is to myself, and truth be told I still don't have my shit together. Last week I had to do my hair, his hair, shop and dress for me, shop with him (that is an excursion in itself), couples and cocktails, photoshoot, and grad work.  That is way too much to do in 2 days. Needless to say my blog got put on the back burner.

This week really isn't that much different, hence why this blog isn't up on Friday. I've had my professional world up in the air, receiving threats in my district email, swamped with my own grading, Telpas (language specific standardized test), and my own post graduation certificate work.  

So now that we can all appreciate how hectic it's been for me these past two weeks let's go down my top 3 ways to relax:

  1. Find a creepy show or movie to stream and veg out.

  2. Candy Soda Crush or Farm Heroes Saga (yup I still play these)

  3. Sleep (just wake up tomorrow and be a new you)

I'm not saying that I'm this simple but these are the things that help me feel better.   I love most things occult. As a matter of fact, I am am waiting for season 2 of The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina the same way everyone is waiting on Game of Thrones.  Currently watching The Blood Queen (dramatization about serial killer Lady Bathory 🧛‍♀️)


Candy Soda Crush and games like it are designed to give you a quick boost of personal satisfaction by giving you seemingly easy matching tasks. Studies have shown that the quick reward system used in these games gets the brain addicted to the release of endorphins that create the fore mentioned sense of satisfaction. I'm not addicted, I can stop anytime I want 👀


A little sleep never hurt anybody. I'm a firm believer in that if things just aren't going your way, at some point you need to regroup. For me, this means taking a shower and going to sleep with the mindset to start fresh after. 😴🛏


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