Starting from Scratch

Alright, I got my technology game kind of back on track.  I know a few of yall were probably wondering what happened there;  I just kill computers. I see them and murder them slowly and when all of the 0 and 1 are gone then and only then am I happy.

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Bitch u betta Plan!

Something my Flyheads should already know is that I love planning and journaling.  For me, a combination of planning and journaling has become a weekly staple feeding my creative need to write and create mini-pieces of art.  More than just playing with stickers and stuff, using a planner is a MAJOR KEY in productivity.

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Self-Binding Blanket

his by far has got to be my favorite beginner sewing projects.  Up until this point I have made pillows and burp cloths, which are super easy and a great way to get to know your sewing machine before moving on to more challenging projects.  What makes these blankets so rewarding to me is that they are super snuggly and equally as quick.

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Getting My Sh*t Together

In reality I don't really feel like doing Black Married Fly all the time. Sometimes when I feel like my plate is too full it’s the first thing I magically scrape off. It's not because I don't care about it or want it to grow it's just how I keep my priority list.

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Strategic Opacity

I really wanted to give you all a list of “Shit I Don’t Want to Hear From People w/ Kids” and I still might hit you all with a double dose.  I want o first address the role of Transparency in my life and my relationship. Shouts out to Jazzmyn Blu of T is for Torah & Transparent Life blogs for always trying to put me on blast and inspiring this post

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Fertility Update!

Welcome back. For this week's blog post I'm dropping the tea on my uterus. Yass girl for all of us women struggling through the whirlwind of emotions and physical changes associated with fertility,  this one's for you, kid.

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The One Pan Meal

Alright so we know that most of us are busy AF and that's our excuse for not cooking. As easy as it is to run through a drive through, we know that is not the best way to turn your leg into a six pack.  Drum roll please….to-date! Enter the one pan meal

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Healthy stuff

So it's still fairly early in the year still so if you haven't yelled out “New year, new me” yet you still have time. Matter of fact I'm about to put y'all on so much game with this post you won't know what the hell to do next!

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All For One And One For All

As most of you know Jussie Smollett was attacked in Chicago, authorities believe this was a hate crime.  I will be so bold as to state that Smollett’s attack WAS a hate crime.  For the most part, hate crimes tend to happen to people who belong to groups who are marginalized.  Taking it one step further, the LGBTQA+ community took to Twitter to accuse Black men of not rallying around this incident. 

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But You Said....

What up yall? Thanks for coming back to my corner of the inters of net. Now I originally

wanted to do a DIY for Jazzmyn Blu’s wedding centerpieces but by the time it came

down to doing it I was completely overwhelmed and burned out

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Welcome!

Welcome to my blog.  I’m Candace DeNea, teacher, Co-host of Black.Married.Fly Podcast, Co-Owner and Creative Director of Black.Married.Fly the brand, wife, writer, novice seamstress, weaveologist, makeup junkie, and crafter. OMG! That is a lot but I can’t seem to be happy unless I am doing too much PERIOD.  So to feed my addiction to doing something I have committed to providing you my interpretation of my Fly.

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